Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Disney Movie Showdown: "Frozen" Vs. "Tangled" (SPOILERS AHOY!)

So...there's this movie called Frozen that you may have heard of. Newest Disney movie...Academy Award-winner...highest-grossing animated film of all time...adored with cult-like fervor by millions of young girls all across the world. My girls are no exception: for the past three months, I have been forced to read Frozen tie-in books to my kids hundreds of times, listen to the soundtrack on YouTube thousands of times, and generally be bombarded with Frozen minutiae daily.

Every time my girls go to the playground and ride the swings, they start singing "Let It Go" to energize themselves. They squealed with delight when they received Frozen T-shirts and action figures at Christmastime. They beg me to buy them almost every bit of Frozen merchandising that we see. Lorelai has been writing a stage adaptation of Frozen, with her sisters & friends playing all the parts (perhaps I should explain copyright law to her?). And when we visited Disneyland a few weeks ago (more on that later), the girls ooh'd and aah'd over the animatronic Olaf, who greeted visitors who were waiting in line to meet "Princess Anna and Queen Elsa":
(I drew the line at actually waiting in that line, though. A two-hour wait, to see some ladies in costume? No thanks! Luckily, the girls were distracted by other things).

So as you can see, Frozen has become kind of a big deal. Not just for my kids, but for lots of people, everywhere. Its message of love, family & tolerance has really struck a chord with adults and kids alike, and it's become the movie sensation of the year.

And yet...and yet... *I kind of think Frozen is overrated*. And maybe...just maybe...*I actually like Tangled (the last "Disney Princess" film) a little bit MORE than Frozen*

Hopefully, this viewpoint won't have me labeled an outcast by my resident Anna/Elsa fangirls. But while I do enjoy Frozen, I think its virtues have been overstated, and some of its faults ignored. I think the movie's soundtrack (which is quite good!) has tricked the general public into thinking Frozen is a better film than it really is. And when the hype has died down in a few years, I suspect Frozen will be remembered as a good film...just not the BEST FILM EVAR that many people think it is today.
I'd like to take this opportunity to sing some praises for Tangled, a movie that's been somewhat forgotten in all the Frozen hoopla...and yet is a superior movie to Frozen in several ways. Since I enjoy sports as well as movies, I'm going to convert this blog post into a "side-by-side comparison" of the two films, in the style of a game preview on ESPN.com or something similar. I'll compare similar elements from both films, then give my opinion on which movie does what better. Then, my friends, it'll be up to you to decide whether you agree with me or not.

Let the comparisons BEGIN!! Warning: spoilers ahead for both Tangled and Frozen

PRINCESSES



from disneyinfinity.wikia.com

Let's start with perhaps the toughest point of comparison between the two movies: their lead characters. In all honesty, Rapunzel, Anna, and Elsa are all pretty great. All three princesses are clever, kind, determined, brave, and beautiful. In addition, these princesses have a distinct feminist bent; they have life goals separate from "finding their one true love," and they don't expect a man to solve their problems for them (Anna falls victim to romantic yearnings on occasion, but it's not her defining characteristic). I wouldn't mind at all if my young daughters idolized any of these three!

Since Rapunzel "flies solo" in her movie, she gets more time to develop on-screen (and reveal a more complex personality) than the princesses in Frozen. Rapunzel has spent her life developing a multitude of talents (art, cooking, exercising, etc.), and we get to see some of those talents put to good use on her journey. Rapunzel seems to be a more thoughtful, reflective character than either Anna or Elsa; the audience gets to see Rapunzel carefully weigh her decisions, and have spontaneous outbursts of both regret and joy. In contrast, the Frozen sisters (particularly Anna) sometimes behave more like "character types" than people. Anna sometimes feels like nothing more than a bundle of quirky cliched character beats, while Elsa goes missing for large portions of the film and is thus cheated of additional character development. Their actions sometimes feel more dictated by the plot than by their personalities (ie, "Now Elsa has to do this, to cause Anna to act this way, which will then cause this to happen, etc.")
from disney.wikia.com
Elsa does deserve special mention, though, because she is a Disney princess unlike any other. Elsa doesn't prance through the forest singing to animals and dreaming of romance. She hides behind locked doors, filled with self-loathing and fear of herself and her powers. She tries to run away from her loved ones, and comes very close to walking down a dark, evil path. She's practically an X-Men villain in the making! However, she is saved from that fate by goofy, sweet Anna, and the unconditional love Anna has for her older sister. Whatever Anna and Elsa lack in unique characterization is made up for by their great sisterly relationship. I actually wish the film had spent a little more time fleshing this relationship out; it feels somewhat short-changed but I'm glad it's there nonetheless. The love of one sister for another can be a powerful, life-changing force, and it's a dynamic that doesn't get portrayed often enough in film. Plus...Elsa has awesome ice-creating powers. That counts for something, doesn't it??

WINNER: FROZEN (by a snowflake)

 PLOT

In this section, I'm mostly considering the mechanics of the story...how the story progresses, if events come together naturally, that sort of thing. Frankly, I think this is the area in which Frozen suffers the most. I've read more than once that early on in Frozen's script process, Elsa was intended to be the villain of the story. Then, the producers heard "Let It Go," Elsa's signature song, and decided to rework Elsa into a heroine instead. Which was the right move, in my opinion! However, you can tell by watching the story that they never managed to make the plot reflect this shift in character. After Elsa's big musical number, she vanishes for much of the rest of the movie, either from hiding in her giant ice castle or from being thrown in jail back in Arendelle. Hiding (and plotting) are okay things to do when you're a villain. When you're a heroine and you vanish for most of the story, the writers have to insert a lot of filler. And so instead of Elsa being in conflict with Anna, we get...lots and lots of scenes of Anna & her friends walking/climbing/sledding around. Not a lot of import happens in the middle third of Frozen, and the climax had to have a different villain added at the last minute to heighten the stakes. It all feels very disconnected & slow.
 
from livingoutsideofthebox.com

Tangled isn't a masterpiece of plotting, but at least stuff happens in a logical sequence. The prologue (about Gothel's origins, her kidnapping of Rapunzel, etc.) nicely set the scene. Rapunzel's desires, combined with Flynn's arrival, facilitate her departure from the tower (and Gothel's frantic pursuit). Rapunzel & Flynn have experiences & meet characters who have an effect on the plot later on (I'm looking at you, residents of the Snuggly Duckling!). Rapunzel's journey is logical, makes sense, and doesn't ever drag (despite a back-track to the tower, which sets up the film's climax). Her journey to "see the floating lights" ends up having big consequences for her and for the other characters, and helps Rapunzel discover who she really is and what sort of life she wants. It's standard fairy-tale/adventure story stuff, but it all works.

WINNER: TANGLED

THEME/MORAL 
 
from rotoscopers.com

 Despite having its slow spots, Frozen does have a lot to say about love and acceptance, and that's no small thing. There's a reason so many people have fallen for Elsa and love her character: her struggle with her powers mirrors that of many people who have disabilities/preferences/struggles they keep to themselves. When Elsa decides to embrace her differences and begin to love herself for who she is, it's a triumphant moment, and signals a new beginning for someone who has spent most of her life in uncertainty and fear. Ironically, the "Let It Go" sequence only marks the beginning of Elsa's journey; she still has to unfreeze Arendelle and accept her role as queen. Thankfully, her loving sister is there to defend her, protect her and support her. It's a simple but powerful statement: love and family do matter, and they can help you overcome your weaknesses & obstacles. It's a positive, uplifting message and even though Frozen isn't perfect, it gets a pass on a lot of things because it makes its point effectively.
from weeatfilms.com

Tangled shares a few themes with Frozen (moving from youth to adulthood, responsibility, becoming happy with who you are, love being a powerful force, etc.), but they're portrayed in a lighter, more superficial manner. Mostly, Tangled is focused on telling a good story. And it does that very well! Tangled is less concerned with sharing a "moral" of the story, and more with having fun and putting a slightly modern spin on a classic fairy tale. In fact, with Flynn Rider's reformation being totally glossed over at the story's end (he was a well-known criminal, and we never really saw him change in the movie!), I suspect Tangled wants to "moralize" as little as possible!

WINNER: FROZEN

LOVE INTEREST

I realize that Frozen is not really a movie about romance. However, it does try to trick the viewer into thinking a romance will be forthcoming. And it uses not just one, but two guys to pull this trick off! Too bad they both end up being red herrings, to one degree or another.
 
from thetoryparty.com

Kristoff is a nice fellow; handsome, strong, funny, noble of heart. True, he has an abnormal attachment to his reindeer Sven, but that can be forgiven. But is Kristoff really necessary to the movie? If you were to remove Kristoff from the film entirely (even taking Sven with him!), the plot would barely change at all. Anna could have acquired a sled/supplies/etc. from Wandering Oaken. Heck, she could have taken Wandering Oaken up the mountains with her instead of Kristoff. The end result would probably have been about the same. Now that would have been an interesting movie to make...but not all that different, I bet. The movie's climax could also have happened without Kristoff present, since his love for Anna ended up being unnecessary. All we would have lost by losing Kristoff was a superfluous musical number by those darned trolls (more on them later). Hans is a more stereotypical fairy-tale love interest; handsome prince, charming, brave, a good singer and dancer, and a good leader. Too bad he also turns out to be calculating and very cruel; suffice it to say, his romance with Anna would never have worked out for a variety of reasons.

And then there's Tangled's Flynn Rider (aka Eugene Fitz-Herbert, which is what my girls call him all the time). He's a handsome rogue who has more charisma than Kristoff and Hans put together (sorry, guys!). Flynn is brave, streetwise, and very funny. Plus, he can sing (and dance, when threatened at sword-point). True, he has some legal issues and a clouded past, and his redemption is pretty glossed over at the film's end. But hey...at least he didn't try to murder one of the main characters (looking at you Hans!). As Flynn himself says at the beginning of the movie, "This is a good story, and it's not even mine." He wisely cedes the story to Rapunzel, and plays comic relief sidekick for most of the movie. Most important of all, Flynn is actually important to the plot of Tangled (unlike Kristoff, and Hans for most of Frozen). He discovers Rapunzel's hidden tower, thus inspiring her to finally escape. He helps her find her way back to her kingdom. And at the end, he "frees" her from her bondage to Gothel by slicing off her hair. He dies for his troubles, but not to worry...Rapunzel magically revives him and "saves" him as payback for him saving her! Theirs is a pretty equal relationship, as cartoon characters go.
Plus...HE'S GOT THE SMOLDER. From sideshowcollectibles.com

WINNER: TANGLED

SUPPORTING CAST

If/when Frozen becomes a Broadway play, it will mostly be a two-woman show, a la Wicked. After the sisters and the various men in their lives, Olaf is probably the next most important character. His design is cute and his song "In Summer" is hilarious. Olaf manages to be funny while not being snarky or obnoxious. Without exception, he is friendly and loving to everyone. He's even important on a narrative level; he is a physical representation of Elsa & Anna's childhood love for each other. It's important to remember that as they struggle to reconnect.
 
from insidethemagic.net

So, Olaf's great. Unfortunately for Frozen, the supporting cast thins out dramatically after that. Can you name any of the townspeople in Arendelle? Yeah, me neither. The Duke of Weselton is sleazy and bigoted, but he only appears in a handful of scenes and doesn't end up doing much. Sven is loveable, but he is mostly an appendage to Kristoff. And don't even get me started on those darn rock trolls.

Yeah, yeah, trolls are an integral part of Norse fairy tales...whatever, I don't care. They are probably my least favorite part of Frozen. At best, they are terribly unhelpful to our heroes. Their "Fixer-Upper" song is the worst song in the film; worse, it's the last song in the film! Why couldn't we have had a triumphal final song, or at least a reprise of "Do You Want To Build A Snowman?"? ANYTHING? No, we get a bunch of ugly trolls singing about what a catch Kristoff is...this, after a dramatic confrontation with Elsa that leaves Anna fighting for her life. Ugh...what an anticlimactic final number!
Dumb trolls! From cartoonpapers.com

But the trolls are worse than unnecessary; you could even argue that they are the cause of most of Elsa's problems. At the beginning of the film, the old troll wizard guy warns Elsa and her parents that her powers could be used to do others harm. This scares the snot out of poor Elsa, and it inspires her (also scared) parents to lock her up in the castle and isolate her from everyone for the rest of her childhood. It's because of the old troll's advice that Elsa is so terrified and nervous all the time. Thanks a lot, trolls! And then, the most puzzling & frustrating thing of all to me: The troll wizard erases Anna's memories of Elsa's powers. WHY does he do this? It doesn't matter plot-wise; Anna "re-discovers" Elsa's powers about 15-20 movie-minutes after she was made to forget about them. Keeping Elsa's powers a secret from her sister don't protect anyone; that action drives a deep emotional wedge between the sisters that takes the whole rest of the movie to overcome. Maybe if Anna remembered Elsa's secret as a child, she would have been a lot more sympathetic to her struggles as they grew up, and been less likely to antagonize her at the coronation, which led to Arendelle getting frozen over...et cetera. Darn trolls...they caused all the conflict in the movie!
 
from fanpop.com

Thus, Olaf is cancelled out by the trolls, and Tangled wins the supporting cast battle. Unfair, you say? Well, Tangled's supporting cast has a lot of things in its favor! It has not one, but two cute animal sidekicks, each with very distinct personalities. Maximus is actually an antagonist for most of the movie, but is finally won over by Rapunzel's charm. His antipathy towards Flynn is some of the funniest stuff in the movie. Pascal is Rapunzel's animal companion, who is generally very friendly but not opposed to a frying-pan beatdown, if the situation warrants it. Besides the animals, we have Flynn's partners in crime, the hulking Stabbington Brothers, whose last name alone makes them worthy of mention. Rapunzel's parents aren't very prominent characters (they don't even have any lines!), but hey! A Disney movie in which both parents are alive! That is a rare thing indeed. And last but not least, we have all these guys:
from disney.wikia.com

The ruffians in the Snuggly Duckling tavern get their own (great) musical number, "I've Got A Dream," which is a chance for them to both reveal their sensitive sides and to remind children watching that we shouldn't judge people based on outward appearances. Because of the goodwill built up in this scene, they even help Flynn bust out of jail later in the movie, so he can go save Rapunzel! And then they all attend the coronation, and they find love, and play piano, and collect ceramic unicorns, and dreams just come true all over the place...sigh. So uplifting!

WINNER: TANGLED

VILLAINS

 Neither of these movies has a Major Villain in the moustache-twirling, world-dominating vein, but both movies do have villains who manage to ruin a lot of other people's lives while chasing their selfish goals. But which villain is the most dastardly?
from fanpop.com

I'm going to go with Mother Gothel in Tangled! Even though she has no plans to rule the world, it's pretty clear she'll do whatever it takes to prolong her life, even if it's at the expense of Rapunzel's freedom or Flynn's life. On a more personal level, she's also horribly manipulative, selfish and cruel, always doing her best to keep Rapunzel docile, insecure, and contained. She is skilled in hurling veiled insults; her big musical number "Mother Knows Best," is a masterpiece of passive aggression. She is also devious and double-crossing, and manages to swindle her way back into Rapunzel's good graces for a time, by making her think Flynn has abandoned her. In short, she's very easy to hate and fun to root against!
He was...in the SHADOWS...this whole time! from fanpop.com

While not every movie needs a villain, sometimes Frozen seems a little confused as to who (or what) their villain actually is. Having Elsa as a villain may have enlivened the slow middle act, but that wasn't an option after the script was finalized. In many ways, the main conflicts in the film are internal (Elsa struggling with her personal demons, for example), or else simplified into man vs. nature (like Anna & Kristoff fighting off the wolves or climbing the mountains). But it seemed like the writers made it to the end of the movie and realized there wasn't much tension in the last scene. So bam! Hans suddenly reveals his true colors and becomes a Villain Of Convenience for the last ten minutes or so of the film. It's not completely out of the blue (his family situation seems like obvious motivation, and he mentions it early in the film), but it still feels inserted mainly for shock value (I heard audible gasps in the theater when his "evilness" was revealed). Up to that point in the movie, Hans had done nothing remotely suspicious or dangerous, so his evilness felt spontaneously generated. He is undeniably a threat to Anna & Elsa, but his comeuppance lacks some weight since his betrayal happened almost too fast to process.

WINNER: TANGLED

SETTING
 
from badassdigest.com

Here's another element that both films do pretty well; the worlds are both great to look at! In fact, they are somewhat similar; the kingdoms in Frozen and Tangled are both set alongside large bodies of water. While Tangled's location appears more temperate (northern Meditteranean, perhaps?), Frozen's Arendelle clearly borrows heavily from Nordic culture, which influence its costumes, climate, and architectural design. Tangled is undeniably more colorful (lush forests, blue waters, and of course the vibrant purples & yellows in the kingdom itself), but I'm giving Frozen the edge for its more daring, exotic atmosphere.
 
from thestar.com

The writers and animators reportedly took multiple trips "up north" to get a sense for what life in snowy climates would be like. Then they infused their still, snowy landscapes with weird magical flourishes (the beaded ice drops on the tree branches, the "forest" of horizontal icicles, etc.) that manage to both unnerve and amaze the characters and the viewers. I live in Arizona, and watching Frozen made me feel cold on several occasions.
from theglobeandmail.com

WINNER: FROZEN

HUMOR
 
from guidetostuff.com

I realize humor is a hard concept to measure. I also realize this may be a bit unfair, since Frozen is ostensibly a more "serious" movie and isn't trying to constantly hit the punchline. But too bad; this is my list, and part of what makes a movie entertaining for me (animated movies in particular) are their ability to make me smile and/or laugh. And Tangled is much more fun (and funny!) than Frozen. Its style is much more loose and free-wheeling; the witty banter between the characters feels a lot less forced, and the action is much more slapstick.
from dettoldisney.wordpress.com
 Rapunzel's journey is more personal and the stakes are lower; the fate of the kingdom isn't at stake. Essentially, she's trying to attend her own birthday party! This gives Tangled the freedom to let loose and have more fun with its premise. Frozen definitely has some laughs (mostly supplied by Olaf and Sven), but a lot of the back-and-forth between quirky Anna and her various love interests feels a little strained at times, like they're trying too hard to be cutesy. But maybe that's just me?

WINNER: TANGLED

MUSIC

Poor Tangled. It has some good, under-appreciated songs that lots of people don't seem to remember. For some reason, Disney tried to hide the fact that it was a musical as they were promoting the film. Perhaps they were afraid audiences would stay away if there was singing? At any rate, many people didn't realize Tangled was a musical until they sat down to watch it in theaters. Sometimes, the movie itself seems unsure of its status as a "musical"...there are only four musical numbers (well, six, but two of them are reprises of earlier songs). And the songs are each unique and delightful ("Mother Knows Best" is probably the best of the bunch, but "At Last I See The Light" is beautiful and "I've Got a Dream" is toe-tapping). They have a very "pop music" feel, but they are easy to sing along to, and suit the movie quite well.
from jandmranch.com
With that said...the music of Frozen is on a whole different level than Tangled. It's big, it's expansive, it's catchy, it's ambitious. It's easy to sing out of context, and the lyrics are within a very sing-able range for average folks. It feels very "Broadway" (with good reason: the songs were written by Broadway veterans, and it's very likely the film will eventually be adapted to the stage with additional songs). Frozen knows it's a musical, is proud of it, and will tell it to anyone who will listen. 

It seems Disney was right to be confident about their musical formula this time, because Frozen's soundtrack is a major part of the film's success. Although there are several well-loved songs throughout the film, the most popular by far is "Let It Go," the song Elsa sings just after fleeing the kingdom. It's THE watershed moment for the character; through the course of the song, Elsa goes from sorrow to shame to relief to excitement to decisiveness to triumph, all as she really lets loose with her magical powers. The music and lyrics, in tandem with the animation, are truly electric; it's a high emotional point of the film and probably one of the best musical animated sequences Disney has ever created.

The words of "Let It Go" are just generic enough that countless people can adapt them to fit their own personal circumstances. Many in the gay & lesbian community have adopted it as a "coming-out" anthem; others have praised it as a song that inspires victims of abuse and repression. Still other interpretations of the song include overcoming physical illness, psychological disorders, or simple loneliness & isolation. It's been fascinating to me to see how many different interpretations can be applied to "Let It Go"--and most of these intepretations work! And of course, the little girls all love singing it too; it makes them feel grown-up, strong, and in control. What a good way to feel! I am happy that this song (and the movie containing it) have inspired my little girls to be happy with themselves and live their lives the best way they can.

WINNER: FROZEN

 And...because you all asked for it...my final category:

PRINCESS DEATHMATCH

Bwahahaaa! After all the critical analysis, it's time to shove all three of our princesses into a cage and force them to fight to the death. Who will be left standing?? (feel free to skip this part if you don't like gory descriptions)

Since Anna is the only one of the three princesses without magic powers (unless you count "nervous babbling" a superpower), I'll assume she'll be the first to bite the dust. Either Elsa will freeze her heart (again), or Rapunzel can strangle her to death with all that hair. Anna, sadly, will be a non-factor in the battle.

So it comes down to Rapunzel, the girl whose long golden hair has magical healing powers...
 
from accioyabooks.wordpress.com

...and Elsa, the queen who can conjure snow and ice from thin air with nothing but her hands.
 
from disney.co.uk

I'm sure that Rapunzel could wrap her hair around herself and sing her healing song to take care of her more superficial wounds, but it'll be pretty hard to sing if there's a huge icicle sticking through her neck. Or if Elsa conjures another Marshmallow-type giant snowman who can shatter every bone in Rapunzel's skinny little body. Elsa was able to handle the two Weselton guards with relative ease when they trespassed into her ice castle; if she went full-throttle and full-speed with her ice-making, poor Rapunzel would be a bloody mess in minutes.

All hail the victorious Queen!

WINNER: FROZEN

So there you have it, folks; my final score is Tangled=5, Frozen=5. Hmmm...a tie?? Well, it just goes to show you; each movie has its pluses and minuses. In terms of personal preference, I slightly favor Tangled, but I really enjoy Frozen as well, and I'm glad they're both in my family's DVD library. Last weekend, I held a Frozen viewing party for some friends of our girls; more than twenty people showed up, and they were all glued to the screen throughout. It was great fun to share the fun with others.



What do you all think? Which movie is your favorite, and why? Happy viewing! 

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Flashback Sunday: Lorelai, September & October 2009

Nathan here! In 2009, we started a journal for Lorelai and Celeste, in which Adrianne and I could record the cute and heartwarming things our daughters did.  However, the journal entries stopped rather suddenly once we started keeping this blog.  In a very real sense, then, these journals were the precursors to Grinnin' Barretts.  On the occasional Sunday, I'll be recording a few pages from these journals.

September 1, 2009

[Nathan]: One of these days, I should tell Lorelai about the old seminary video called "Spiritual Crocodiles."  She's doing pretty well on her own though...Tonight, when it was her turn to read scriptures, she instead told a story about crocodiles swimming and a man who fell in the water and was eaten by crocodiles.  Because we were reading the Isaiah chapters in the Book of Mormon, I inserted crocodiles into my own verses.  Momma was laughing so hard she couldn't read when it was her turn.

September 3, 2009

[Adrianne]: Lorelai has been on quite a reading tear lately; she wants me to read to her more and more often, and Story Time has started up again at the library, so the library has become (again) a great source of new books. At home, she'll pull piles of her own books off the shelf, choose 10 to 12 paperbacks, and bring them all to Daddy or myself, demanding to be read to.  If we're not around, she'll sit quietly and thumb through them herself.

This evening, she even took her pile outside onto the back porch, sat down on the concrete and read away as the drizzle came down beyond her seat.  Celeste, who's been copying Lorelai in so much these days, followed her outside with a few books of her won, and the two of them "read" outside as I made dinner.  It was peculiar but cute.  I'm so happy to have two little readers. 
 


On a funnier note, I stepped out of the shower to her hear Lorelai screaming and crying just outside my door.  The reason? She had to "go poo" and couldn't get her overalls off.  Poor kid.

Also, she's starting to call me "Mommy," instead of "Mama."  I wonder where she picked that up.

September 6, 2009

[Adrianne]: Today, Lorelai sat down at the piano randomly smashing keys and singing a creepy ditty she called "The Dead People Song."  The lyrics included "My family knows the dead people / We'll be dead people someday."  Yikes! Where does she come up with this stuff.

Tonight, we went to the Nielsen's to celebrate Scott and Elizabeth's birthday (they're within several days of each other).  Lorelai had been playing with her buddy, Conner, and her evening climaxed with a "slide," built out of stiff foam mats laid out on the staircase.  Over and over, she slid down the stairs, squealing in delight and ending none the worse for wear.  Fun was had by all.

September 10, 2009

[Nathan]: Lorelai was pretending to talk on the phone tonight.  She called her friends, talked to them about various things, and then called other friends.  She called Amber, who was at the Doctor's office; Kent was home with Brad.  She concluded her bevy of faux phone calls with a call to Jesus.

September 12, 2009

[Adrianne]: Lorelai was very moody today for some reason, crying at the drop of a hat about any little thing (including wanting to play at the playground instead of on the baseball field with the other kids at the Pixton farewell party we attended).  I guess there are days like that.


Something I'm not sure I've mentioned before: Lorelai is absolutely terrified of car washes.  She's screamed bloody murder when I've taken her through them and even mentioning that the car needs washing sends Lorelai into a whimpering panic attack.  To try and get her over this, we told her tonight that we'd take her to the local Octopus Car Wash, where you get out of the car and watch them wash it from afar.  That idea seemed to cheer her up; besides, as she pointed out, Nemo (the fish from the Disney movie) wasn't afraid of car washes.  He would help her out.  Here's hoping he does.

Nemo is just her latest playmate.  She has also pretended to be WALL-E and had long involved dialogues with the toy dinosaurs and Littlest Pet Shop figures in the toy room.  Her imagination is truly growing by leaps and bounds.  More on that later.

September 15, 2009

[Adrianne]: This morning, during a play group, two of Lorelai's friends were play-acting they were heroes, and they decided Lorelai would be the villain.  Lorelai got mad at this, and sulkily insisted that she was a "good girl."  An uneasy, glaring stand off ensued.  The protective side of me wanted to intervene, but I tried to keep my distance to see how it would be resolved. A minute or two later, Lorelai was the hero, the other two kids were the bad guys and everyone was friends again.  I hope times like that will teach Lorelai conflict-resolving skills and courage and independence.  And I hope I learn how to give my daughter room to grow.

September 16, 2009

[Nathan]: Lorelai's imagination is not just active, it's adaptable.  A few weeks ago, she was pretending to be a "white dog." When I informed her that dogs don't talk, she adapted and became a "talking white dog." The Talking White Dog has been part of our family for several weeks now.  She'll walk around on all fours, carry things in her mouth, and sleep "outside." This latter came about when I told her she couldn't sleep in her bed because dogs sleep outside.  Tonight, she informed me that she was going outside, then pantomimed opening and closing the sliding glass door, and then crawled into bed.  Active and adaptable!

September 21, 2009

[Nathan]: While I was bathing the girls tonight, I started to sing the old Muppet song, "Mahna Mahna." Lorelai loved it so much and was quickly providing the "mahna mahna" lines in their appropriate places.  After the bath, I found the video on Youtube, and both girls loved it.




[Adrianne]: Also, Lorelai actually took a nap today for the first time in a while! It was great; I was able to have a piano lesson go peacefully, for once  Also, as we read scriptures tonight (the end of 2nd Nephi), I told Lorelai that "prophesying" means "to tell the future." She nodded intently, and added, "and also it means you fight bad guys." Parental laughter ensued.

September 22, 2009

[Adrianne]: Although Lorelai's language skills are constantly improving, she still uses some interesting phrasing that often changes her intended meaning.  For example, she often inverts cause and effect in sentences, making it sound like the effect is the reason for something (not coincidentally, she rarely, if ever, uses the word "because").

Some examples: "there's lots of stars in the sky.  That's why it's night time." "I'm going to eat dinner now.  That's why I'm hungry." or "The baby is crying.  That's why he's sad now."  Clearly, the proper usage of the phrase "that's why" needs to be taught better in this house.

September 28, 2009

[Nathan]: Last week, Lorelai wrote her own name on a piece of paper.  It was missing the "R" and the "A" was upside down, but it was an unmistakable first effort at writing her own name.

Tonight, we went to my parents' home in Green Valley to drop off a housewarming gift to greet them when they move down here full time.  We've visited with them in that house before, so Lorelai expected to see them and was VERY disappointed to learn that Gramma and Grampa were not home. 

October 5, 2009

[Adrianne]: Although Lorelai is STILL a "talking white dog" much of the time, she's added another alter ego: a superhero.  This is undoubtedly due to the "Supergirl" pajamas she has recently inherited, with pink "S" logos all over them.  Every night, once the PJs are on, Lorelai "flies" around the house, proudly proclaiming her superhero-ness.  She will occasionally do good deeds, too! Tragically, though, she often calls herself a "boy" superhero. I have to teach her that girls can be super heroes, too.   

October 21, 2009

[Adrianne]: I haven't written in a few weeks; I took a solo excursion (well, Nate didn't come, so I was the sole parent with two kids) to Utah to visit some friends and family; since then, I've been fighting off a cold. None of these things are much fun when you're six months pregnant.


Lorelai is becoming a better traveler all the time; even though we had to take more potty breaks to accommodate her small bladder.  She moves methodically from activity to activity (reading, drawing, or watching a video in the case of this trip) without much complaint. She will also sit peacefully for long stretches without complaint, even though I'm sure she must be bored.  I think Lorelai is an innately good child, who doesn't like to cause trouble.  Sure, she has her difficult times and difficult habits, but she's not defiant by nature.  Part of it is that she's just too friendly and excited by life to let inconveniences and setbacks keep her down for long.

In other news, Lorelai loves her preschool. It's only two hours twice a week.  I wish it were longer, but it's still helping her get ready for kindergarten.  She genuinely enjoys learning; she gets better at letter and word recognition all the time, she's much better at counting, and she's learned lots of interesting new songs that we hear her singing throughout the house.   We just found out her preschool teacher is pregnant with twins and is due sometime in the spring, so the class may be cut a bit short.  However, we still are glad for the experience she's received; it's been a needed eye-opener.

With the holiday (Halloween) fast approaching, Lorelai has decided she wants to be a "girl robot." Assembling a rickety robot costume out of cardboard boxes and clumsily painting it silver with pink and black trim has not been my idea of a good time.  Lorelai loves it, though and that probably makes up for any design deficiencies it has.  Those are some general thoughts; I'll try to write again with more specific "daily Lorelai" news soon.

October 25, 2009

[Adrianne]: Today, Lorelai took it upon herself to punish Celeste.  When she wasn't acting to Lorelai's satisfaction, she yelled at her and told her she "needed a time-out." She put Celeste in their bedroom and closed the door on her.  Celeste then began crying loudly. We need to be more clear in letting Lorelai know who really handles the discipline around here.


Also, Lorelai was the only person who actually sang "Happy Birthday" to me.  It was sweet; even if she did it while running helter-skelter through the house.  I love my spunky little girl.

This Friday, we learned that Lorelai qualifies for speech therapy, and is thus eligible for attending preschool at the Early Childhood Center for no charge.  We like the finances and think it's the right move for her developmentally, but it's a LOT more preschool than what she's used to (and what I'm used to). Plus, she's really come to love her current school; I hope we can all adjust to this change quickly and easily.  All this, and a new car and new baby on the horizon.  A lot of change is coming and Lorelai is not always good with change.  Here's hoping...

October 30, 2009

[Adrianne]: Lorelai is Mommy's little girl in many ways, not the least of which is her love of Halloween.  She doesn't scare as easily as some little kids her age; in her fantasies, she's not afraid of monsters, she just fights them.  Also, she enjoys being a little spooked (a big step to enjoying Halloween, IMO).  She delights in creepy rubber spiders and ghosts and monsters; she watched "The Nightmare Before Christmas" and was quick to declare her love for it, even though some parts clearly upset her.  Enduring and enjoying scary stuff is something she wears as a badge of honor.  It's cool to me to see that Lorelai's burgeoning imagination is being tempered by a sense of realistic boundaries and realizations of what's really dangerous and what isn't.


This year, Lorelai has decided to be a robot for Halloween.  After painstakingly building her robot costume, we have had the chance to try it out publicly this week.  The results are a little mixed; she is certainly very proud of her costume, and she gets many reactions as to how cute she looks.  However, her maneuverability is quite limited when she has the costume on; she can't sit down, see behind or to the side of her, and her arms can't reach out very far.  At our (very cold!) ward trunk-or-treat this last Wednesday, we were gathering together to bless the food, and Lorelai told me intently, "I can't fold my arms!" When I encouraged her to clasp her hand, she whimpered, "I can't do that either." So, we held hands for the prayer--crisis averted.  I wonder how tomorrow night's trick-or-treating will go...


Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Tooting Someone Else's Horns

Even though the rest of our winter has been nice and warm, the month of March still decided to come in like a lion. Seemingly out of nowhere, a cold front swept through town, bringing with it chilly breeze and lots of rain (well, "lots" for Arizona, anyway). The whole day was filled with gray skies, wet shoes, and windshield wipers. I love a good rainy day now and then, as does the rest of our family. However, it can sometimes make outdoor play a little difficult. What to do?

Why, go visit the Green Valley Concert Band, of course! They happened to be holding an instrument "petting zoo" for kids on Saturday, March 1st. It was an opportunity for kids to see musical instruments, handle them, and even try to play them a little!
Not a lot of children showed up; I don't think there were more than ten kids there altogether. That number included the kids in the Shaffer family, whose daughters are friends of our girls and whose mother Windy is my friend and a tuba player in the Concert Band. But the small turnout was all to the good; it meant all the kids had plenty of time to examine each instrument closely and move through the "petting zoo" at a comfortable pace.

Even the parents accompanying the kids got in on the action! Besides piano, the only other instrument I've ever played was the viola, way back in elementary school. When I initially tried out for band way back then, I remember having a really hard time getting the brass and woodwind instruments to work. The music teachers thus steered me towards the string section. At the "petting zoo," I wanted to see if I'd gotten any better at making sounds come out of trumpets and oboes.
Short answer: I've definitely gotten a little better, but I'm not sure I could ever play those instruments well. I barely even got sound out of the tuba (which, in fairness, is the most difficult horn to sound, but still...I was disappointed in myself!).

Aurora playing the tuba is adorable.
And for some reason, I have even more trouble making sound on the woodwinds; I could barely get a squeak out of the clarinet! *hangs head in shame*
My daughters, on the other hand, all did much better than I did at their age! Here are a few videos of them trying out their luck on various instruments:

Looks like they all have pretty healthy lungs (of course, I could have told you that before, based on all the yelling I hear daily around the house). Aurora was the "busiest" participant in our family; she tried every instrument more than once, and managed to get all of them to work! Celeste had a little trouble with the flute, but really wailed on the saxophone. Lorelai had a little trouble with the clarinet and saxophone (taking after her mother, perhaps?), but she did fine on the brass instruments. I think she may have a future as a trumpet player!

And if anyone is getting grossed out by the thought of all those little mouths on all the instruments, don't despair! All the musicians had a large supply of mouthpieces handy for each instrument, as well as large containers full of disinfectant where each "used" mouthpiece was dropped as soon as each kid had a turn. No germ-sharing here (we hope!).

And they even gave all the kids ice cream cones when it was all said and done. As you can imagine, this put the activity over the top for them. Overall, I'd say it was a great way to spend an hour or two on a rainy Saturday. I have gotten such joy playing piano over the years; I know that playing an instrument can be very beneficial to a child in many ways. I hope that by letting the girls try out those instruments, they will be inspired to try out additional musical instruments in the future, and deepen their own love of music. And maybe I will be able to join them in their efforts; I would really like to learn to play more instruments someday, and this "petting zoo" deepened that desire!

Saturday, March 8, 2014

Februarys in Tucson: A Bunch Of This And That

As I've probably mentioned before on this blog, February is a surprisingly busy month in the Tucson area. The weather is usually great this time of year, so everyone likes to do their special events at this time. On top of Valentine's Day/President's Day, there's also the Tucson Rodeo (there's even a school holiday associated with it!), the internationally known Tucson Gem & Mineral Show, and all sorts of other activities. Our family doesn't do all of these activities every year, but we managed to get a fair amount done this year. Besides visiting the new LDS temple, here are some other ways we spent our February:
We checked out the Gem Show

Of course, when someone says he or she is "going to" the Gem Show, they usually mean they are "going" to only a tiny portion of the whole "show." The Gem Show is a massive, sprawling event that takes place all over Tucson, in dozens of locations and with hundreds and hundreds of vendors involved. Even though it's not very centralized, there's usually something for everyone at most venues. The reason we decided to go this year was because of some rare fossils that were on display at one of the venues.
This is one of just a few fully excavated T. Rex skeletons in the world; seeing it fully assembled was a big treat for the girls! There were also several other dinosaur skulls, and one other complete skeleton (it was a small egg-eating dinosaur of some kind) was actually for sale! Too bad I didn't have $300,000 with me at the time.

Another room in the same building had a bunch of other fossils, including these awesome sea dinosaurs:
Besides the fossils, there were many other vendors in many different galleries, selling all sorts of fascinating rocks, minerals, stones, gems, carvings, furniture, and more. We had fun admiring all the pretty stuff, and we managed to get a handful of stuff to take home for a very low price (a few vendors even let us take small uncut samples for free!). We all had fun picking out shiny trinkets to take home; maybe as we revisit the Gem Show in future years, we will start building up a little pile of pretty rocks in our home. We probably get our love of rocks and minerals from my mother, who is a big fan of precious gems & stones. Hopefully some year, Grandma Nash can join us in our Gem Show visit.

We saw the Budweiser Clydesdales
True, we are not a family who drinks any alcoholic beverage, let alone beer. But that doesn't mean we don't appreciate seeing some big, beautiful, iconic horses when they decide to visit our hometown! I'm not sure just why Budweiser decided to send their Clydesdale wagon to our little town in southern Arizona (possibly a promotion with a local bar/grill), but we were glad they did! (even if the traffic in and out of our supermarket parking lot was horrible that day)


I knew these horses were large, but you don't really get how big they are until you are standing a few feet away from them. They loomed over the crowd, and they were incredibly clean and shiny and disciplined; there was a crowd swarming around them the whole time, but they stood very calmly and still all the same.
The girls, being the horse-lovers they are, were thrilled to see such fine equine specimens up close. And being dog-lovers as well, they appreciated the Dalmatian perched on top of the wagon too!

I ran a 5K
This was technically not my first 5K (I did a super-fun zombie-themed mud run last spring), but in some ways this was a more satisfying experience. It was the first time I'd ever entered a "normal" run, with no obstacles to interrupt the running. It was a good challenge for me: just a few years ago, I had never done any running to speak of. I'd always assumed that a 5K was something I'd never want to do...or even be able to do. I'm doubtful I'll ever be very fast (I finished well back in the pack), but I was able to see ways in which I could improve myself for the next run. Because I know there will be a next run. I am finally starting to learn about the "runner's high," and what a sense of accomplishment it can be to push my body beyond what it's comfortable doing. It was a great way to spend my Valentine's Day weekend. Plus, the entry fee went toward my daughters' charter school, so it was a win-win!

My girls ran through the sprinklers...


Not really a major accomplishment, but just a demonstration of what a bizarro world we live in sometimes in Arizona. The National Weather Service just announced that this was the warmest winter on record for Tucson, and I can believe it...having to turn on your air conditioner more than once in February is usually a sign that something is a little unusual.

 
Nowadays, when I hear about severe winter storm warnings elsewhere in the United States (and there were many of them this winter), I feel like I am living on another planet from everyone else. Unlike everyone else, I actually miss the cold weather sometimes! However, it also makes me happy to see my girls out playing in the grass, getting soaked and having fun. We'll be paying for it in a few months, unfortunately...when the insane heat rolls in *groan*

 ...And they petted a bunch of animals for Rodeo Days
As I said above, children in Tucson get a four-day weekend on the last full weekend of February. It's called Rodeo Days, and it's named for the Fiesta de los Vaqueros, the historic week-long rodeo that takes place in Tucson. A big part of the festivities is the Rodeo Parade; it's the largest non-motorized parade in the country (that is, none of the floats are run by motors; everything is pulled by animals). One of these years, I want to take my kids to both the rodeo and the parade; I think they will enjoy both of those activities quite a bit.


But that wasn't going to happen this year. We are on the verge of heading to Disneyland, and so we're pinching our pennies a bit. Maybe next year! I decided to take the girls to the free-admission Rodeo Festival, sponsored by the Rancho Sahuarita Clubhouse. Not as exciting as the Rodeo, or the Rodeo Parade, but just fine if you're looking for a cheap way to entertain your kids for a couple of hours.


We waited in line for the usual pony rides. The girls whined and complained the whole time; this does not fill me with confidence that they will love Disneyland.
Besides the pony rides, we also took time to ride the miniature train, and to chase around animals in the petting zoo.



My personal favorite was this creepy buck-toothed shaggy llama.

We had recently shown our kids the movie The Emperor's New Groove, the goofy Disney movie in which the main character is magically turned into a llama. When he first sees his new reflection, he cries out in despair: "LLAMA FAAAACE!!" It's a phrase I like to use as often as possible in everyday life, often when I find myself looking less than great, or when I've discovered something awful that requires a special kind of exclamation.
LLAMA FACE

Imagine my delight, then, when I got to say it to a real live llama...and one who isn't much of a looker, either (what an underbite that guy had!!).

We all hiked around A Mountain


A Mountain is the local's name for Sentinel Peak, a hill on the west side of Tucson. Atop the hill is a 160-foot tall letter "A," made of whitewashed rocks. It was put there (and is still maintained) by the University of Arizona, who occasionally paint it the school colors of red, white, and blue. The "A" is very visible from the freeway, and I can't count the number of times our kids have asked to go up to the "A" when they see it out the car window. Finally, a couple of weeks ago, we decided to give them what they asked for!
It wasn't much of a hike, really; there is a road that goes up almost to the top of the peak. But there are a few small trails that wind their way around the peak, and we wandered those trails for a while, then climbed over the "A." The kids were all impressed at how much bigger the "A" was in person!
 

The view from the top was pretty good...we could even see far-off Picacho Peak, which is in a different county from us! Unfortunately, the top of Sentinel Hill is pretty filthy; there is broken glass everywhere from countless beer bottles, and lots of graffiti on all the rocks. I guess it's a location that attracts all types, including those who like to booze it up on mountaintops and then throw their trash all over nature. It was disappointing.
 
 

The view made the trip worthwhile, though...as did the family trip to Eegee's afterwards for some ice-cold refreshment.

Well, that's about it for our February. In March we travel to Anaheim, and have a fun family Disneyland vacation. We are very excited, and hope to share some more fun stories with everybody soon!