Friday, August 17, 2012

Each Daughter Had A Milestone This Week

This has been an eventful week for all three of my daughters. Lorelai had a birthday, turning seven years old. Celeste started her second year of preschool (and her last before "real" school--kindergarten!). And Aurora bought some panties to begin her potty training! Yeah, it's been a busy week for Mama too. :)
Lorelai decided to celebrate her birthday by going out for pizza and games at Peter Piper Pizza's in Tucson. She enjoyed her pizza...
...her present (a Batman doll from her buddy Hyrum. What a tomboy my beautiful girl is!)...
...and her rides on the indoor roller coaster. There wasn't much money left to do anything else but the roller coaster, but no matter; Lorelai had a great time with her friends.
On Sunday the 12th (Lorelai's actual birthday), she opened the rest of her gifts...
She especially loved her new unicorn stuffed animal, and her new Disney Princess doll (this one was Merida, the heroine of the new movie Brave). She also got a new bike helmet, some new tee shirts, and new piano books. We are going to try starting piano lessons again this fall; I am excited, and I think Lorelai is excited as well! I just hope I can encourage her to practice regularly.

With money she received from other relatives, Lorelai also got a couple of new "science" toys, including a baking-soda rocket and this neato tornado simulator:
So, a good birthday overall. I can't believe she will be getting baptized in just one year! I hope we can all be prepared for that.

Just two days after Lorelai's birthday, Celeste reached out her new backpack and lunch sack, and dressed extra-pretty for her big day. As you can see, she was pretty darned excited.
It's true that Celeste attended preschool last year; in fact, I helped teach that preschool. But I decided I wanted a year off (at least) from teaching, so we decided to go the "paid" route this year. We signed Celeste up for Smart Scholars Preschool; it's a home-based school run by a woman who just moved to Rancho Sahuarita this summer. I heard about her through the LDS grapevine (she attends church at the neighboring ward, but her house is actually walking distance from our own). Besides being close, her prices were also quite reasonable, so it was a wonderful fit for us!
Ms. Nichole, Celeste's new teacher, has an elementary-education degree, and seems in general to really know her stuff. Besides her credentials, she is also very nice, blond, and beautiful, so Celeste is totally in love with her already and wants to go over to "Miz Micole's" house every day. She has designed her whole front room to look like a preschool and it looks wonderful.

It is very neat to see Celeste so excited for school. Even though preschoolers don't have any official homework, the preschool has sent home a small folder with a few tracing/letter activities. Every day after school when Lorelai starts her homework, Celeste pulls out her homework folder and does her "homework" right alongside Lorelai. I think it's adorable, and it makes me regret (a tiny bit) that she wasn't quite old enough for kindergarten this year; it's clear to me that she's ready for that step. However, the selfish part of me is also glad Celeste will be home one more year; I am starting to dread her growing up, going to school, and becoming "responsible." I will miss her adorable questions and her unquenchable charm. So, just two mornings a week is an acceptable amount apart from Celeste for me right now!

Aurora was not to be left out of the big happenings this week, either. Yesterday, we went to the store and bought my youngest that special gift reserved for the "mature" toddler...colored undies! She was very excited and was constantly "checking" the underpants, running her hands all over them in awe at how different they felt than diapers! (Too much information?) However, since this was only (after all) her first day of potty training, she had several "spills" and many changes of undies. We also bought her a new toilet seat, and she is eager to try it out. We are still working on timing, though, but I am sure it will come with time.

Unfortunately, Aurora was running a fever all day today, so I decided to put the potty training on hold until she was feeling more comfortable. Even then, she came complaining to me every time she "went" in her diapers (even if it was only a trickle), and insisting that I change her, no matter how "empty" the diaper felt. Apparently, the panties have spoiled her already on having a dry bottom! I'll take that as a good sign.

It remains to be seen whether the next week will feature as many milestones in my girls' lives as this one has. I somehow doubt it will; however, that doesn't mean the week will be any less eventful in other ways!

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Batman, "Brave," and The Bechdel Test: My Movie-Watching This Summer

Okay, now that I've written my lengthy analysis of the Bechdel Test, it's time to apply the Test to my recent movie watching. Most of the films I saw in theaters; some were delivered to me courtesy of my Netflix subscription. I haven't listed them in any real order; just writing them down as I remember them. This post gives me an excuse to not only write movie reviews (which I love doing), but it gives me a chance to analyze these movies from a slightly different perspective. Plus, if any of you consider me an arbiter of good taste (granted, this is doubtful), you can give some of these movies a try if you haven't already. Here goes!

**WARNING: MILD SPOILERS AHEAD**


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The Avengers

Review: This is one of the more perfect blockbusters of recent years; a shiny, loud, colorful, exciting, entertaining confection of a film. It's light and fluffy like cinematic cotton candy; it sure is fun to eat, but doesn't have a lot of calories. That's okay though; not all movies have to be heavy dramatic works. All the actors are clearly enjoying themselves (and aren't bad to look at either!); writer/director Joss Whedon keeps things moving along at a tremendous clip; and my inner geek had lots of fun watching so many different superheroes battle bad guys (AND each other) while cracking wise. I can't wait to see it again!

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? NO. There are three female characters with fairly susbstantial roles. There's Tony Stark's right-hand-gal Pepper Potts; S.H.I.E.L.D's Agent Hill (who ultimately doesn't do much but stand around and look concerned); and last but not least, Black Widow/Natasha Romanov (aka "the girl Avenger"). Romanov actually gets a fairly meaty storyline for a movie this crowded with characters; she's a fine addition to the long line of strong Whedon-written female characters. Unfortunately, Black Widow doesn't share much (any!) screen time with the other female characters. In other words, no female characters talk to each other throughout the whole film! Too much other "action" going on. In all honesty, I was too busy ogling Thor & Captain America to be disappointed in the lack of female conversation. But I digress!



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The Hunger Games

Review: I already wrote a lengthy review of The Hunger Games a few months ago. So, to sum up: it's not a great movie, but it is a really good, enjoyable one, with a great cast.

But, Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? YES! A movie with a female main character often has an easier time passing the Test...and The Hunger Games has female characters aplenty. Besides main character Katniss, there's Katniss' sister Primrose, their mother (who admittedly isn't named in the film), District One Games official Effie Trinket, Hunger Games co-contestant Rue, and several other named female Games contestants. And guess what? They talk to each other! This film manages to pass the Bechdel Test in the very first scene, where Katniss, Primrose, and her mother are having a conversation. It's a discussion about obtaining food...in this story, survival is a bit more important than boyfriends! Katniss has many other conversations throughout the film with female characters, and only with Rue does the subject of a boy come up (they briefly discuss fellow contestant Peeta).




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Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World (via Netflix)

Review: A very odd-duck kind of movie, one that is definitely not for every taste. Visually, it's one of the most clever and groundbreaking films I've ever seen. Scott Pilgrim is a slightly bent boy-meets-girl story, filtered through a Red Bull-infused, video game addict's perception. Video game imagery is used as a visual metaphor to illustrate how young people interrelate, the challenges they must overcome, and the difficulties of growing up and confronting their mistake-filled pasts. Unfortunately, all these insanely neat ideas are in service of a bunch of unlikable characters. Scott, the members of his band, his roommates, his various girlfriends, and the "evil exes" he battles are almost uniformly self-absorbed, rude, arrogant, and vacuous. It's ultimately too much for the film to ask me to root for these people, most of whom I would avoid at all costs in real life! Too bad, because it greatly lessens the chance I'll ever watch it again. As a visual experiment, though, it was brilliant.

But, Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? YES (barely)! There are a whole heap of named female characters in Scott Pilgrim: Knives Chau, Ramona Flowers, Kim Pine, Stacey Pilgrim, Envy Adams, and more. And since they all run in the same social circles, they talk to each other quite a bit. However, most of these girls either: A. Are related to Scott; B. Used to date Scott; or C. Are currently dating Scott. As a result, (and because this is Scott's movie after all...his name's in the title for cryin' out loud!), the girls talk of little else but Scott and his merits/failings. Still, a few snippets of conversation manage to turn to other things. Sometimes they'll talk about each other's bands; at one point, Knives tells Envy she reads Envy's blog. So, despite being a very relationship-centric film, Scott Pilgrim does manage to pass the Bechdel Test (though maybe not with flying colors).


Parenthood (via Netflix)

Review: This is a somewhat older film (from 1989), and I remember watching it a lot as a kid and really enjoying it. So, thanks to the magic of Netflix, I was able to watch it again as an adult. It's a little corny and emotionally manipulative, but overall still very watchable, with a lovable cast of characters. It's the story of one extended family (the Buckmans), and their struggles to cope with kids, school, jobs, marriage, divorce, teenage rebellion, pregnancy, and more. Each character's plot intertwines with everyone else's; it's a slightly messy, complicated (but still funny) portrait of a family, and how family members can both drive each other crazy and support each other through good times and bad.  It was interesting watching this movie again after so many years; since becoming a wife and mother myself, my perspective has changed quite a bit, and certain aspects of the film resonated with me much more than before. If you like family dramedies, this one is worth a watch! (By the way: there's a TV show currently on NBC--also named Parenthood--that is modeled heavily on this movie, and it's been well received by critics)

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? YES! The women of the extended Buckman clan (Karen, Susan, Marilyn, Helen and her teenage daughter Julie) have plenty of opportunity to talk to each other at various family gatherings throughout the film. Men are a frequent topic of conversation (much is said about all the women's husbands, ex-husbands or boyfriends). However, children are also popular topic; a few major conversations deal specifically with Helen's son Gary (he's a young teenager; does that count as a conversation about a man? I honestly don't know). The surest "pass" indicator for Parenthood, though, is a brief conversation between Karen and Helen, in which Karen reveals she's not that interested in going back to work because she's enjoying being a stay-at-home mom so much. Kind of ironic that a movie passes the feminist-inspired Bechdel Test on such a "non-feminist" note, but there you have it! However, in a movie that is so heavy on the domestic drama, this shouldn't really be a surprise.


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The Dark Knight Rises 

Review: I am a long-time Batfan, and I really enjoyed Batman Begins and The Dark Knight. So it's safe to say I was excited about seeing this, the newest (and last) Christopher Nolan-directed Batman movie. However, I guessed Nolan wouldn't be able to top The Dark Knight for sheer drama and intensity, so I went in with lowered expectations. This turned out to be a wise move (unlike poor Nathan, who was so excited to see it that he was a bit let down afterwards). The Dark Knight Rises is still a good movie, but it's the most problematic of the three recent Bat-films. It's a little too long, the villains and their plot are very over-the-top (almost cartoonish), and many of the plot beats don't make a lot of sense. Plus, Batman himself doesn't appear for large stretches of the film, so if you're watching the movie just to see Batman kicking butt, you may be disappointed. However, there is still much to recommend it: Selina Kyle (aka Catwoman) ends up being a scene-stealer, the action scenes are genuinely thrilling, and Bruce Wayne's personal journey is really compelling. It's fair to call this the Return of the Jedi of Nolan's Batman trilogy: it's probably the "least good" of the three films, but it doesn't seriously embarrass itself either. Plus, it ties up the entire trilogy very neatly and leaves the audience satisfied with the outcome.

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? QUESTIONABLE. As is often the case in Christopher Nolan's films, there are few female characters. The two most important are Selina Kyle and business magnate Miranda Tate; these two never speak to each other throughout the film.There is one other significant female character: Selina's blond roommate/friend, who helps her out with a few of her schemes early in the film. They have two (very short) conversations, which deal mostly with the cons they're pulling. Later in the film, they (very briefly) discuss the fall of Gotham's wealthy in an abandoned mansion. Technically, these conversations aren't about men (or at least a specific man). However, Selina's roommate is never named in the course of the film (I've seen it twice now, and didn't hear a name either time), so I'm going to "fail" the movie on that technicality.


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Brave

Review: My girls, unsurprisingly, were very excited to see this movie--and so was I! I have loved just about every movie Pixar's made (Cars movies notwithstanding). I had heard some mixed reviews coming in, with many dismissing Brave as a "Disney Princess movie." Many other online reactions were along the lines of, "It was an okay movie...but it wasn't for me." My inner feminist bristled at these remarks. Well, duh! I wanted to say to these (probably male) people. Every other movie Pixar's produced has had a mostly male cast and has male main characters. So now Pixar's finally made a story about women (with a women director, no less), and you whine because it isn't like every other movie they've made? Grr...who says a movie can't be good and be told from a female perspective???!?! However, I swallowed these complaints and decided to try out an impartial viewing.

I have to confess...this isn't Pixar's best work. While the animation quality is top-notch (as always), Brave is missing that extra "something" that would make it a truly great film. The dialogue is fairly run-of-the-mill (and often borders on cliche mother/daughter stereotype); there are several dangling plot threads at the end of the movie; and the supporting cast, while colorful, is criminally underused. Plus, the main plot (Merida's accidentally "cursing" her mother, and her struggle to put things right) takes a little too long to kick into gear. In spite of all that, though, I still enjoyed Brave quite a bit (let's face it, even a "bad" Pixar movie is better than most other movies!). Merida is a sweet, tough, courageous young girl (so of course, my girls love her!). Plus, her evolving relationship with her mother is the emotional core of the movie, and it works very well. Despite not being a "typically perfect" Pixar movie, I still enjoyed Brave. I also liked that Pixar was trying out something different. While the studio has created its share of strong female characters in the past (Jesse from the Toy Story films; Mrs. Incredible; Dory; etc.), they've always had to play second fiddle to the male characters of those films. I am happy that this is a movie about a girl's personal journey, and about how her journey affects other women around her. It's a story that isn't told often enough...and I think it's good for my girls to see a "Disney Princess" that doesn't need rescuing or saving...she can save herself!

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test?  YES! This should probably come as no surprise, since Merida and her mother Elinor are the two main characters (the Witch has many lines but isn't named, and kitchen maid Maudie has a minimum of lines; most of the other characters are all men). Merida and Elinor do talk about Merida's arranged marriage (this could probably count as talking about a "man"), but they talk about many other things as well: etiquette; history; manners; love; survival; danger; etc. Merida and The Witch also talk a great deal about Elinor and Merida's life. So Brave passes the Test with flying colors!


Now, here are a few more quick reviews of movies I saw this summer for the first time (with one exception). Most of these (unsurprisingly) I saw with the kids. Hence all the cartoons, and hence my not caring enough to write a longer review.




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The Ant Bully (via Netflix)

Review: This movie was release in 2006, eight years after 1998's Antz and A Bug's Life. Still, the comparisons are hard to avoid...another CGI movie about ants?? This one at least takes a slightly different approach; the ants use magic(!!) to shrink a boy down to their size, and he must learn to live as one of them and work as part of a team. It's decent fare for a family movie night (which is how our family saw it), but I'm not compelled to seek it out again.

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? QUESTIONABLE. There are several human (and ant) female characters in the film, but none of them talk much to each other. And when they do, it usually involves the question, "Where's Lucas (the title character)?" There may be a few snippets of non-Lucas-centric conversation between these characters, but I'm hard-pressed to remember them.


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Puss In Boots

Review: I was surprised how much I enjoyed this movie! I was fearing another Shrek-type movie, with fart jokes and quickly-outdated pop-culture references. Puss's first solo film, however, plays it a lot more traditional, and the result is a pleasing hybrid of fairy tale and spaghetti Western. The action is fun; Antonio Banderas as Puss In Boots is always hilarious; and Humpty Dumpty, of all people, provides a surprisingly complex emotional arc to the film. Who knew?

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? NO. Besides Kitty Soft-Paws (Puss's love interest), there is also Jill, the female half of a robber duo that includes her husband Jack (get it?), and Imelda, the head of an orphanage. However, none of these three named female characters ever speak to each other. So, fail.


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Alvin And The Chipmunks: Chipwrecked

Review: Getting to the bottom of the barrel here. I guess if you like to see a bunch of rude, annoying chipmunks ruin their manager's life (and then get stranded on a jungle island where they proceed to be rude and annoying some more), then this is the movie for you. And if you like to hear hit pop songs re-recorded with annoying high-pitched voices, then this is definitely the movie for you. There are one or two moments that were okay, but I won't miss this film much.

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? YES! Despite the fact that this movie bugged me, it does pass the Test with relative ease. There are three Chipettes (Brittany, Jeanette, and Eleanor), as well as a human castaway on the island named Zoe. They all talk to one another at some point. While some of the dialogue revolves around the "male" Chipmunks, clothes and sweet dance moves also come up. In one particularly serious (for this film) conversation, Zoe asks Jeanette for some help in retrieving some treasure hidden on the island.


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The Smurfs

Review: Ugh, this movie. I enjoyed the Smurfs cartoon when I was a kid, but all the charm is gone. The Smurfs themselves aren't all that interesting, their antics get tiresome (and are never funny), and the whole movie goes on way too long. Plus, Gargamel. Oy. Hank Azaria needs to stick to voice acting, because every time he's physically on screen, I want to punch his awful, overacting face. As Gargamel, he's cartoony, awkward, and generally awful. Other, better actors (particularly Neil Patrick Harris! Why, Neil? Why did you need to participate in this???) also go to waste. So sad that people are so blinded by nostalgia that a sequel to this non-deserving film is forthcoming.

But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? YES! Ironic, really...since Smurfette has often been the ONLY female character in Smurf stories! However, Smurfette does have another girl to talk to this time around. Her name is Grace Winslow; she's the pregnant wife of Harris' character, who takes the Smurfs in and helps them out as they try to return to their own dimension (or something). Grace and Smurfette have a few conversations about "girl stuff" throughout the film, like clothes, flowers, etc. At one point, they both talk about the value in having a female friend to confide in. Nice sentiment...too bad it's stuck in the middle of a lousy movie.



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Monsters Vs. Aliens (via Netflix)

Review: Susan Murphy gets hit by mysterious alien energy force on her wedding day, then grows 50 feet high. Susan becomes part of secret government lab that houses monsters. Alien conqueror plans invasion of earth. Monsters (including Susan, aka Ginormica) head out to stop aliens. Modest hilarity ensues. It's a pretty straightforward plot, and a pretty straightforward movie. It was mildly amusing the first time I saw it, and it hasn't really improved from there. The characters & plot are all very lazy; this movie could have been pretty awesome, but it's not trying very hard--it always goes for the cheap laughs.


But Does It Pass The Bechdel Test? YES! (barely) Here's an example of a movie with a female main character that has trouble passing the Test. As a character, Susan is actually a pretty good one. She's tough and brave, yet pretty feminine too. She gains lots of self-respect and confidence as the movie goes on. The problem is there aren't many female characters in the film at all. Susan's girlfriends, her mother, and her future mother-in-law all talk with Susan at the beginning of the film, but it's all about the wedding (and, by extension, her fiance Derek). Afterwards, Susan's paired off with the all-male military/monsters/aliens cast through most of the rest of the movie. However, towards the end, Susan's mom tells Susan how proud she is of all her daughter's accomplishments. It's a nice moment...and enough for the film to pass! But it wasn't much.

Okay, faithful readers...that's it for now. I might try this exercise again with other films down the road, or as a one-shot analysis of a single film/TV show I want to write about in more detail. In the meantime, let me know how your favorite films fare when the Bechdel Test is applied!

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Girls Talkin' About Movies: Watching Film With The Bechdel Test In Mind

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 Since I learned about the Bechdel Test a few months ago, it's been in the back of my mind every time I turn on the television or go to the movie theater. For those not in the know, the Bechdel Test is a test designed to measure the gender bias in a work of fiction. In other words, the Test is a way to determine how frequently (and how well) a movie, book, or TV show portrays women. Even though it was first introduced in 1985, it's still a telling indicator on the lack of three-dimensional female characters in popular entertainment.

The Bechdel Test has its origins in a comic strip titled (ahem) Dykes To Watch Out For, written by American cartoonist Alison Bechdel. Here's the strip that gave rise to the Bechdel Test; it was written back in 1985. On paper, it all seems very simple. For a work of fiction to pass the Bechdel Test, it has to:

1. Feature two or more female characters (a recent modification to the rule insists they be named characters);
2. Feature these two characters talking to each other; and,
3. The character's conversation must be about something other than a man.

No problem, right? Well, it's a lot harder than you might think. In fact, the number of films who meet these three criteria is surprisingly (depressingly!) low. In the case of the "blockbuster" wide-release films, the number passing the Test drops even lower. (By the way, I'm going to focus on movies for most of this post, since books and television tend to pass the Bechdel Test much more frequently. Books and TV employ long-form, more complex storytelling than most films, and are statistically more likely to have multiple named female characters who have intricate conversations at some point. Plus, lots more women write books than make movies, so that probably has some effect too!)

Here's a large database of films (3,200 and counting), each with a Bechdel Test "rating" (the films are graded according to how many of the three criteria are met). Warning: the website isn't formatted well. The movies are listed along the left side of the screen and lots of scrolling may be involved. If you want a shorter list of more recent films, try this list of films that fail the test, from FeministFrequency.com. And for one more interesting analysis, this article points out the large number of Disney and Pixar films that fail the Bechdel Test. Yes, Disney (the company that proudly touts its Disney Princess line) has a decidedly mixed record of creating well-rounded female characters.
from Walt Disney Corp. via Screenrant.com
So, what does the Bechdel Test say about pop culture? Despite its feminist origins, I don't think the Test is a good indicator of overt sexism. While sexism and misogynism are (sadly) alive and well in many parts of Hollywood, most films aren't created with the intent to marginalize or ignore women. However, the fact is that the film industry is comprised predominantly of men (white men specifically, but that's a whole other discussion). Female directors are very rare; female screenwriters, even more so. As a result, the stories we see coming out of Hollywood are told with a decidedly male perspective. And since most men understand themselves better than they understand women, it's just "simpler" for them to write stories from their own point of view.

Unfortunately, this can lead to a kind of unintentional sexism, in which women and their desires, interests, and goals (with the big exception of their romantic goals) are ignored in favor of the "real" story--the desires, interests, and goals of the male protagonists. What do men in movies talk about? Business, friendships, families, adventures, science, exploration, personal goals, spiritual discoveries...great movies have been made about all these topics. And many of these films have featured strong, interesting female characters. However, all too often, we only see one (maybe two) female characters in these films, and their goals conveniently match up with the man whose story it is. Often, this female becomes the "love interest." On other occasions, she may be a mother/sister/subordinate figure. In either case, her life is not the focus of the story...the man's is.
Marion was Indiana Jones' first and best girlfriend. She was brave, resourceful, passionate, and pretty. But the movie wasn't named after Marion was it? Nope...she was still Indy's sidekick/love interest, when all was said and done. And wait...did she even HAVE any female friends? Yeah, I thought not. Photo from VintageCulture.net
Things get dicier when there are multiple female characters in a movie. Some male screenwriters are likely at a loss as to what these women should talk about. Maybe because these screenwriters don't have many female friends in real life? Maybe their women friends always go to the restroom together to talk, and the men never hear the conversations? For whatever reason, the writers usually end up bending the women's conversations back towards the characters who "really matter" to the story--again, the male protagonist(s). Maybe (just maybe!) some male writers think that women talk about nothing but their boyfriends...or their dads or brothers or male friends. Maybe male writers think that women don't talk about "important" things with each other (like goals, careers, families, spiritual discoveries, etc.) Maybe they think women keep their conversations light and frivolous, sticking to topics like beauty products and nice clothes--so they assume conversations between two women won't add anything of substance to their movie. Maybe they assume that men are the most important aspect of the average women's life, so it's only natural women should spend most of their time talking about men. I realize much of this is speculation on my part (and again, I don't think most writers are consciously or maliciously minimizing women's contributions), but there is a lot of evidence to suggest that female characters aren't given the dimension or opportunity to develop that their male counterparts usually receive.

Now, lest I be accused of being an over-generalizing femi-Nazi, let me make something clear. The Bechdel Test is NOT an indicator of a film's quality. There are many films out there that have failed the Test, which are truly great, inspiring films that I love. On the other hand, there are plenty of movies that pass the Bechdel Test that are horrible films (like The Smurfs *shudder* or those Twilight movies). When I say a movie has "failed," I don't mean it's failed as an artistic venture, or that I hate it, or that it's terrible. I just mean it didn't have a large female presence in it. The Bechdel Test is most useful, I think, on a macro level, not on a film-to-film basis. When we can look at a large number of films, and gauge how those films use (or don't use) women, we can get a good idea of what general trends exist in Hollywood. From there, we (as consumers and potential artists) can evaluate what sorts of changes or additions can (and likely should) be made to the film industry in general, to better accommodate female characters and give them a more prominent voice.

But enough endless analysis! Since this blog post is getting long enough as it is, I'm going to wrap things up. HOWEVER...my next blog post will put the Bechdel Test into action! I'm going to list all the movies I watched this summer (in no particular order). Most of the films I saw in theaters; some were delivered to me courtesy of my Netflix subscription. I'll have a short review of each, and then figure out if each film passed the Bechdel Test. You, loving readers, can follow along at home. Afterwards, I encourage you to analyze the movies & TV that you watch as well, and see if they are up to the Bechdel Test standard! Whee, what fun...a new way to watch the stuff you enjoy!

 

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Summer Rushes To A Close...And Now I Have a Second Grader!

I'm up late (again), watching the 2012 Summer Olympics in London (a weakness of mine), and trying to get caught up on my blogging before I get really busy. You know...before school gets into full swing. When my kids were small, I never thought I'd actually be busier during the school year than in the summer. Yet that's exactly what has happened. So, with that in mind, I've got to finish my summer blogging before all my piano students get back from vacation...and before Lorelai's homework starts to get really challenging...and before Primary has a bunch of activities lined up...and before Celeste's preschool gets underway...and before my fall canning begins...and so on.

Even though we haven't been "school busy" yet, we have been hard at play. That's the best kind of "busy," if you ask me! Here's what we managed to cram into the last week and a half before school started.
-We visited Pump It Up, the Tucson indoor play center with lots of inflatable activity areas. The kids, as usual, played hard and were wiped out by the end. But it's totally worth it!
Notice that my kids are blurry in all these pictures, since they wouldn't hold still long enough for me to photograph them. Especially Aurora; she was on a mission at Pump It Up. She was able to scale the tall inflatable slides all by herself, and she made the climb over and over and over. It was one heck of a workout (and one heck of a nap that afternoon, to my delight!).

-A few days later, we saw a juggling show at the local library. This guy travels all over the state to perform, but he comes to Green Valley every year, and he is great fun to watch. Plus, we were able to check out more books from the library afterward, so it's a win-win scenario!
-I have had more time to cook (well, a little more time) this summer. We decided to make a yummy peanut-butter banana pudding for Family Home Evening one night; and the girls were happy to help out!
Here's just about everything you need; in the mixing bowl is vanilla pudding mixed up with peanut butter & sour cream
You start by layering vanilla wafers and banana slices...
...then cover that layer with the pudding/peanut butter mix...
...then another layer of Cool Whip on top.
You repeat the layers 2-3 times, then top with a few banana slices for garnish. My girls liked layering the cookies (when they weren't eating them!)
If anyone wants this recipe, send me a message. It is very drool-worthy.

And then, it was July 25th, also known as "go time." Just like that, summer came to an end, and I have a child who is in second grade at Great Expectations Academy, a local charter school.
It's all a little hard to take in; summer went by so quickly! I guess that means I did a good job keeping us all busy, though. It's also hard to believe Lorelai is in 2nd grade already; that doesn't sound like a "little kid" grade anymore! This is the first year she gets the standardized testing in the state of Arizona; that, too makes it feel like she's finally "arrived" as a student!
Sometimes I miss my little girl (who's getting shockingly tall and skinny). Still, I am so proud of her, and I'm excited to see what she learns this year. I hope I can help her out in whatever way she needs. I hope she has fun learning and getting involved at the school; she is going to try and sign up for one of the school's clubs this year. I'll post more about that once we've decided what she'll be doing.

School starts earlier at Great Expectations than it does at most of the schools in the area, so my schedule is in a bit of limbo right now. I don't know what times my piano students will be coming in the fall; I don't know exactly what my fall schedule will be like. But for now, I am happy to slowly slide back into gear. Hopefully, I will keep up to date on blogging--because I'm sure you're all dying to know what inane stuff runs through my head on a daily basis.