Thursday, April 30, 2015

Tale As Old As Time...

Another springtime has come to Sahuarita, which means another school play was performed by the talented kids from Great Expectations Academy (plus several local home-schooled children). And just like last year (when the school performed Cinderella), Lorelai had a role in the show!
This year's production was Disney's Beauty And The Beast. During the early days of auditioning, Lorelai informed me that she either wanted the part of Gaston, or the part of the Beast himself! Sigh...I had to explain to her that the world wasn't quite ready for a girl to play either of those parts. After that, she decided she wanted to be a wolf, because it would be fun to engage in mock "battles" on-stage. Can you tell my oldest daughter is a big huge tomboy?
Lorelai and her buddy Conner, performing their solo lines from "Belle"


In the end, though, Lorelai was cast as the Milkmaid. She had a solo singing line in "Belle," the musical's opening number. She also performed in the ensemble for two more numbers, "Gaston" and "Kill The Beast." Although "Gaston" is one of my favorite songs from the musical (and probably my favorite "Disney-villain" song ever!), Lorelai preferred "Kill The Beast" because (of course) she got to carry a torch and/or pitchfork around while singing. Not only that, but she got to engage in a mock "war" with the palace staff during the play's climactic moment. My action-loving girl...sigh.
Just like the year before, the play was directed by my friend Diana, mother of five (including four GEA students), wife to a bishopric member, and all-around amazing person. She had a co-director this time: her sister Cindy, whose family also lives in our ward, and whose children also attend GEA. Diana and Cindy have a lot of prior performance experience (in fact, Cindy regularly teaches dance classes to local kids), and they are also really high-energy, fun ladies to be around. They did a wonderful (and amazing) job herding around this large group of kids and shaping them into a great performing ensemble.
"Kill The Beast!"

Beauty And The Beast was a more challenging play to put together than Cinderella the year before. For one thing, it had a much larger cast. Cinderella had about 27 kids; Beauty And The Beast had close to 43. There was only one cast for both shows; the main parts weren't double-cast as they had been in years past. This larger cast also had a lot more large-group musical numbers to perform. Most of Cinderella's big numbers were done by soloists or small groups. Beauty And The Beast had several large musical numbers, often with complicated dance routines thrown in. And finally, the music for Beauty And The Beast is more complex; it has busier lyrics and complicated, often overlapping melodies. At least sets and costumes weren't as big a deal this year; many of them were recycled from Cinderella!
"Belle" is possibly the hardest song musically in the whole show, and it's the song that starts the play rolling! The kids worked on that song in rehearsal for months before getting comfortable with it.


When Lorelai and her fellow townspeople moved on to rehearsing "Gaston," the focus shifted more to the complicated dancing. A large part of the number involves several dancers clinking beer steins together in a rapid, rhythmic pattern. When it all came together, it was really impressive.
Even though I didn't attend most of the rehearsals, I was so proud of all the kids whenever I saw what they were working on. I was also very proud of Diana and Cindy for holding everything together and getting the kids to work so hard and so well. By the time the week of the show arrived, everyone looked so confident and excited. The excitement was contaigous!
 
Once again, Susan, the wife of our LDS Bishop, did a lot of work on the costumes, and they turned out wonderfully. And even though GEA's humble production didn't have the same special-effects budget as the Broadway version of the show we watched last December, they still managed to make everything look and sound great



As I did last year, I volunteered to help out backstage for one of the performances. As someone who worked backstage for several plays in high school, I had an awesome time! I enjoy working "behind the scenes" and making sets and props appear onstage as if by magic. And the control freak in me enjoys directing the backstage "traffic," summoning kids to the stage when it's their time to go on. Of course, most of them didn't need any help in this regard; they were old pros by this point!
Lorelai with Sarah, aka "Belle"
 This year, the play brought in a much bigger audience than it had the previous year. I suspect the larger cast, good word of mouth, and more famous play were the main reasons. The play was held, as the previous year, in the Sahuarita LDS Stake Center, and its cultural hall was full both nights.
I was bursting with pride at all the kids and their hard work. I was also thrilled at all the adults who extended a hand to help, and how professional everything looked for a "kid's production." Diana has already told me there will be another play next year; we all look forward to seeing which show she chooses, and how the kids will impress us yet again with their talent and enthusiasm!
Lorelai had a great time doing the play this year. Lots of her friends were in the cast, and she was more prepared for the practice and performance routines. I'm not sure if the play is something she'll do again next year or not. Celeste is getting really jealous at not being allowed to try out for the show (so far, 3rd grade has been the minimum-age cutoff), so we have that to consider. Another factor is Lorelai's desire to try out so many activities (like sports, band, and other after-school clubs). How we juggle it all next year will be interesting to see!
But for now, she can bask in a job well done. Our family had a wonderful time watching her (and the rest of the cast) perform. Grandma Barrett and Uncle Grant were able to attend the Saturday night show, and they were amused and entertained. It was fun to share that experience with some of our extended family.

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

An Easter/General Conference/Hairstyling Weekend

March was a bit of a whirlwind, but April hasn't been without its busy days. The school play is this weekend(!), for example, and that promises to be lots of fun (and lots of work). But for much of the month so far, we have been laying low a bit and preparing for the busy-ness to come.

Our Easter weekend, however, was a whee bit whirlwind...but in a very good way. This year, Easter was a confluence of happy events; the holiday that celebrates Christ's resurrection, as well as the semi-annual General Conference of the LDS Church. General Conference is always a special weekend; it's a time for relaxing at home and being both spiritually and physically fed. Spiritually fed by the words of our living prophets, and physically fed by all the delicious food we usually stockpile for conference weekends. And since Easter fell on the same weekend, we had a big ham dinner to look forward to on top of everything else! Yum...
But before conference weekend was upon us, we had a Good Friday picnic to do. For many years now, our family has taken a picnic lunch (or dinner) up into nearby Madera Canyon. It's a good opportunity for family bonding and for cavorting through nature. We managed to do a little of both!
It was perfect picnic weather; however, the girls were so excited to run around the picnic area they didn't eat much.

And our visit was early enough in the year that there was still some running water in the canyon, from the winter moisture:
 
 
 

We spent most of our time near the tiny creek, getting our feet wet and crawling across a variety of fallen logs and large boulders. It was fun!




We had a later start than usual due to Nathan's work schedule, so for this Madera Canyon visit we only managed dinner and a short hike. But we will definitely return again soon.

The next day, General Conference began...as did our hours of sitting in front of the television. I love General Conference, but it can run on a bit, and sometimes it is hard to stay awake and alert for the whole thing. Some of our church leaders have such peaceful, soothing voices that their talks act like lullabies! For the children, long hours of conference television can be a bit tiresome as well. We have been trying our hardest to provide print-outs, games, and other quiet activities to keep them nearby and reverent while conference is on the television.

For most general conferences, I spend much of the time cooking, and this weekend was no exception (CostCo muffins & hash-brown casserole on Saturday morning, cinnamon rolls and sausage-egg casserole Sunday morning, and of course Easter ham and trimmings on Sunday afternoon). However, I've been trying another trick to keep me awake during conference sessions: braiding my daughters' hair.
I am not super-skilled in beauty or fashion matters, but my girls have insisted on growing their hair out really long in recent months. So, I reasoned, why not learn to do something with all that hair? I have never been too good at braiding hair, so much of this was new territory for me. But I had the time, and I had the desire, so anything was possible!

Interestingly enough, one of the first things Lorelai asked me to do was give her an "Elsa braid" (as in, Queen Elsa from Disney's Frozen). I gave it my best shot, then gave Celeste an "Anna braided pigtails" look to match...


The girls were pretty happy with my work! Whew. To be fair, Elsa's braid isn't too tough to do...it's mostly a loose, tousled side-French braid.


The next day, I got a bit more ambitious and tried out a few crown braid designs.

 
 

Some worked better than others, but they were all good practice. In fact, I ended up doing a crown braid for each of the girls the following week on a school day.

In between all the hair-braiding and General Conference-watching, Celeste and I found time to sneak out to a fun spring picnic/Easter-egg hunt with her Girl Scout troop:


They even got to hit a pinata shaped like a sun hat! It was a perfect party for little girls.
Of course, we had our family Easter-egg hunt the following morning, before the Sunday sessions of General Conference began. Since there was a lot of running around, I don't have more than this one blurry picture of the great egg hunt:
Nathan, as is tradition, was tasked with hiding all the eggs. I made sure to count them all this time before he hid them. And we still didn't find them all! Nathan is getting too good at this job. Over the next few days, we'd find most of the unaccounted-for eggs, but as of this writing, one more still lurks out there...somewhere. Hopefully we'll find it before the ants do!

The Sunday morning conference session was very emotional for me. For one thing, my dear friend Amber Perry (who will soon be moving to Colorado) came over to watch with us; our time spent together has become bittersweet, and I will cherish these last few get-togethers we'll have. For another thing, there were many powerful talks in that session: about having patience with those who have abandoned faith; about never taking for granted the gospel knowledge we have; about the balance of justice and mercy in the Lord's Atonement; and in the sublime gift of grace. I confess that I spent many minutes of this session wiping away tears. Some of these messages were words I desperately needed at this time in my life.

Other things made me a little sorrowful this Conference season, too. I was mostly saddened by the frail state of President Monson and several of the Apostles (particularly Elders Packer and Hales). They are great men who have lived long, meaningful lives; all the same, it is hard to see them wear down and grow ill. I have a feeling their time on earth is short, but I know the church will be in good hands even upon their passing. I hope they can find physical and emotional comfort in their time remaining.

After a short walk around the neighborhood to stretch our legs, we welcomed Grandma Barrett into our home for Easter dinner. That night, we also bought tickets for the whole family to see the Broadway musical Wicked this fall in Tempe. Hooray! But more on that later.

I am always grateful for General Conference weekend; it is a great time to rest a little and learn more about the gospel. I am also grateful that we had a spiritual "double-dose" this weekend with the arrival of Easter. I have many failings and imperfections, but I am happy to have the knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ to inspire me to become better than I am. This gospel gives me hope that my future can be bright, and I can be more. I hope this "recharging" of my spiritual "batteries" will stay with me until the next General Conference!

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Spring Breakin' 2015 Pt. 2: We Tried A Little Of Everything

So...besides our trip to the Phoenix Zoo, what else did the girls and I do over our Spring Break (besides watch more TV than usual, of course)? Here's the rundown:
We went swimming a couple of times. Even though I live in Arizona, I am not a "swim all year round" person. I can't quite make that leap! However, by late March, I am usually ready to venture back into the pool...and so are the girls. They were begging me to go for days leading up to Spring Break, and I would have been a monster to refuse them. We ended up swimming twice during the break. Mostly, we stayed in the large pool, with one or two small trips to the toddler pool (which my two younger girls still love). The splash pad and waterslides won't be open until after school's out, so this was a pretty mellow, relaxed outing. It was great to sit poolside, trusting that the girls can take care of themselves! Aurora is still wearing a life-jacket, but we are hoping to "wean" her of it this summer. It feels so weird (and liberating!) to not have to watch my girls the entire time while swimming any more!

We picked, canned, and ate a lot of grapefruit. My mother-in-law Sandra has a nice grapefruit tree in her backyard, and it's usually loaded with fruit this time of year. She invited us to come pick some and take them off her hands. We were happy to oblige.
 


Coincidentally, I had just ordered a whole case of Ruby Red grapefruit from a local produce coop as well, so I was in the unusual situation of having more grapefruit than I knew what to do with. In fact, as of this writing, we still haven't finished it all off!
However, another gift Sandy gave to me recently is a book of specialized home-canning recipes...and included in that book were several recipes for canning grapefruit. I decided to get a little experimental...
 
...and this was the result! It's a grapefruit-raisin compote, although it looks and tastes just like a marmalade. I actually overcooked it a bit, so it is pretty stiff; I actually have to heat it up in the microwave for a few seconds to make it smooth enough to spread on toast. But I was surprised at the nice blend of sour and sweet in the compote. It was a fun experiment, and I definitely want to try canning more grapefruit products in the future. In the meantime, I have a bunch of fresh grapefruit to eat.
We had a movie party at our house. Last year, about thirty-five girls crashed our house for a Frozen-themed movie party. Everyone ate ice cream, huddled up together on our couches, and sang along with Anna and Elsa. All was well. We decided to throw another movie party on March 20th, this time showing the latest Disney hit, Big Hero 6.
 

 The turnout wasn't quite as big as the previous year (many friends from last year's party were out of town), but it was still a cozy group, including some friends that we don't see as much anymore, like Hyrum and Ella (their family moved to Corona de Tucson a year or two ago). Ice cream was eaten, popcorn was consumed, a good time was had by all who attended.
The girls went "camping" in the backyard. In past years, the girls have always liked sleeping outdoors during Spring Break. When they were very small, we managed to squeeze one or two of them into a tiny play tent. In more recent years, they opted to sleep on the trampoline. Now that we finally have a full-sized camp tent in good condition, they were able to stretch out in comfort (especially because we moved one of our futon mattresses outside for them to sleep on).


For the first time ever, all three girls managed to spend the whole night outside! It was a nice warm night and the girls cuddled up warmly with their stuffed animals and with each other. They read books by the light of our lantern, they told each other stories...it was delightful. Maybe we'll do it again before it gets too hot!
We went golfing...both the "mini" AND the "grown-up" varieties. Arizona is known for its great golf courses and golf climate; why not celebrate that by hitting the green?
In recent months, Nathan has become much more interested in golfing than he's ever been before. A lot of it has to do with the fact that he has been able to use his late father's membership at the Green Valley Country Club for several months, which has given him time to learn the ropes and hone his skills. He's even been able to use Glenn's clubs, so basically he's been golfing for free for almost six months now. He's become a bit drunk on the privilege, and has been heading out to twilight tee-offs with Sandy once or twice a month, as well as the driving range whenever else he can.
So, on an otherwise uneventful Saturday, Nathan took the whole family along to the driving range, so we could see him in action.
 
Not only that, he helped all the girls with their stroke motion!
Some of the girls were more excited than others. Lorelai was very eager to learn, but also got frustrated very easily once she realized how much finesse was involved. Celeste and Aurora took a few swings each, and then went off wandering and exploring the course.


This time, I even got into the golfing action! I think this was the first time I've ever officially taken a swing on an actual driving range.
Since no one had left-handed clubs, I had to practice driving right-handed. The results were about as you'd expect...not great. However, I did manage to get some air and some distance on a few of the balls. Sandy seemed impressed by my efforts, and said they were really good considering I was using my off hand. However, Sandy is a very polite, positive person, so perhaps she was just saying that to be nice? Either way, it's an experience I wouldn't mind repeating again someday...hopefully with lefty clubs! But don't tell the rest of the family...I'm not ready for the golfing lifestyle yet!

Several days later, I found some coupons I thought I'd lost months ago. They gave each girl a free round of miniature golf at Funtasticks, a family entertainment center in Tucson. We had never been to Funtasticks before, so the girls were excited and willing to try it out.
It was a really fun course, full of cute waterfalls and clever holes that were just challenging enough to keep Lorelai interested. She got impatient with herself in the early going (I kept telling her that a good short game in golf is a lot more difficult than you'd think!). However, somewhere on the back nine, she got more confident and improved considerably. I suspect she'll do even better next time! Celeste and Aurora, on the other hand, spent most of the time scooting their balls across the green with their putters or otherwise cheating their way through the course. They also complained about the heat and lost interest pretty fast. Maybe in another year or two, they'll have a little more fun golfing.
Funtasticks has a lot of other cool activities, such as laser tag, go-kart rides, bumper boats, an arcade, and several small children's amusement park rides. On this day, however, mini golf was to be our only activity (we had many other errands to run and lunch to eat). We definitely want to return to Funtasticks later, though, and take more time to let the kids do everything they'd like.
We hiked to Tanque Verde Falls with friends. This was probably the biggest "outing" of our Spring Break next to our Phoenix Zoo trip. When I say "biggest," I mean "required the largest time commitment," at least in terms of planning and driving. After living in Arizona for almost twelve years, I was a little embarrassed to admit that I'd never even heard of Tanque Verde Falls until just a couple of weeks ago. But a few friends of mine took their kids on a hike there and took some lovely pictures, and I got very interested in seeing it.


Originally, I'd planned on taking the girls up Sabino Canyon, something I've done a few times in the past. There is a large creek in the canyon that is fun to wade and swim in during the spring, before it dries up in the summer. However, Tanque Verde Falls offered a very similar landscape (a hike down to a running creek), with one advantage; I didn't have to pay to take a tram to the water! So I talked to my friend Keri, who has children the ages of my children, and we decided to try out this hike.
Finding the trail head wasn't too difficult, although it was a good hour's drive away from home. Basically, you drive on Tanque Verde Road until it ends and becomes an unpaved trail. Then you keep going for another mile or two before coming across a primitive parking lot, with lots of potholes and no lined parking spaces. We parked our vans there, and then loaded up the kids and took them down the trail.
The trail was very beautiful this time of year; lots of bushes and trees are in bloom, and the weather is warm but not too hot. The trail itself had lots of loose gravel and several switchbacks, but it was nothing our families couldn't handle. To get to the bottom of the trail took no more than ten minutes.
We were all mildly disappointed to see that the falls themselves weren't there, at least not at this time of year. Ah, the perils of living in a dry desert! It's possible that if we had come after heavy rain, the falls would have been there. However, there was still a sizeable creek flowing, and lots of big smooth rocks on which to clamber around. The kids happily dove in.

 

I was happy to cool my tired feet in the chilly water as well.

Lorelai and Ryan, Keri's oldest son, took turns skipping and throwing pebbles across the water. The younger kids all took turns exploring, sunbathing, and playing pretend in the creek. After goofing off for a while, we broke out our lunches and refreshed ourselves.

There were a few minor hiccups in our trip to the falls; I tried to carry too many supplies across the rocks and dropped Lorelai's personalized water bottle, breaking it. I felt so terrible about that! A short time later, I was trying to carry too many things across the rocks with me, and I took a big tumble into the stream. In the process, my phone got wet and so I couldn't get any more photos of the rest of the trip. Thankfully, the phone wasn't permanently damaged, but all our towels got wet!
There wasn't a lot of shade in the creek bed, so after a while it started to get uncomfortably hot and my girls all started to get glowing complexions from the excess sun. So we reluctantly slipped our shoes back on and trudged back up the trail. However, since we were all nicely damp, this wasn't so bad! Poor Keri was getting a little burnt out from the hike, but we immediately drove to a McDonald's and each got a cool treat, which helped us all feel much better in short order.

In conclusion, I'd say that Tanque Verde Falls is definitely worth another visit. It was an easy, scenic hike, with lots of places for the kids to climb around, get wet, and explore. Next time, we might try visiting after heavy rainfall (or earlier in the year, after the winter precipitation), to see if the falls will be running at that point. In the meantime, it made for a fun afternoon out.

Just a couple more things!

We went to the zoo...again! No, not the Phoenix Zoo--the Reid Park Zoo, where we are long-time members. We were running a bunch of errands up in Tucson, and we decided to drop in and say hello to a few of our animal friends. It wasn't a very long visit, but we stayed just long enough to hear the jaguars snarling angrily for several minutes (she must have been very hungry), and for the girls to pose inside this "eggshell" in the aviary:
Someday, I will have to post all the pictures I have of my girls sitting inside this egg. I sometimes feel like I have taken a picture of one or more of my daughters here on every single trip to the zoo! It would be fun to set all the pictures side by side, and see how tall, stretched-out, and grown-up my girls start to look as the time passes.
We participated in an Easter-egg hunt with our LDS ward. In the past, our church's annual Easter-egg hunt has been at a local park in our neighborhood. This time, probably wanting to have more control over the crowds and over the egg-hiding locations, our Primary presidency opted to hold the egg hunt outside an LDS meetinghouse. It turned out to be a great idea; there were a lot more creative places to hide the eggs, and the kids had fun exploring the new venue.

Since my girls are all of different ages, they were running willy-nilly everywhere and I didn't really get any pictures, except for all the older kids taking off at the "starting whistle," so to speak. Watching everyone scramble frantically to find a bunch of hidden eggs with candy in them never really gets old.

We went to see a movie with Celeste's Girl Scout troop. Normally, we don't go see too many movies in the spring-time; our theater-going peaks in the summertime and has a brief revival around the winter holidays. However, the girls (and myself!) were all excited to see the new live-action version of Disney's Cinderella; the girls because of the fairy-tale aspects, and myself because of the great cast.
We all ended up enjoying the movie for a variety of reasons. I particularly thought the production design and costumes were gorgeous; it was so awesome to hear all the little girls in the audience audibly gasp every time Cinderella appeared in some new, sumptuous gown. My favorite part of the movie, though, was its message: "Always have courage, and be kind." That was the advice of Cinderella's mother for her daughter early in the film; and even though it's such a simple message it's very powerful. Such an attitude makes it so much easier to bear up our burdens and overcome obstacles in life. If everyone would follow this advice, I'm convinced the world would be a better place. It's a great message for everyone, boys and girls alike, and I hope it's a message my daughters take to heart.

The same day as the egg hunt and the movie (Saturday, March 28th), Lorelai and I attended the LDS General Women's Meeting. Immediately after that, we had dinner and games with our dear friends the Perrys, who are soon leaving us behind and moving to Colorado Springs. We have known the Perrys for nine years now; they are our oldest friends in Arizona, and although we are happy for their new adventure, we will miss them terribly. The one comfort in their moving is that they will be in Colorado, in a city we frequently pass through on the way to visit family! Hopefully this means we will still be able to visit with them once in a while.

After that jam-packed Saturday, it was a relief that I "only" had to lead the ward choir in a song on Sunday, plus attend a ward missionary meeting. With that, our eventful Spring Break came to a close and real life began again. We had a great time and kept ourselves busy, but in a fun way! Hopefully the next couple of months won't be too much for us; the last quarter of the school year can sometimes be a bit overwhelming. Here's to a successful spring!